Chapter 2: Extracts from Father Peter Clifford's Diary 1997

by Jen Jolley


To keep this second chapter of Peter Clifford's diary reasonably brief, only entries that are relevant to the story of Peter and Assumpta and Peter's dilemma concerning his vocation are included. Where he has recorded incidents that do not concern Assumpta, or his feelings for her, these have not been published.
 

18 March

It's over a year since I arrived in Ballykissangel. So much has happened in that time and I've changed a lot too. I feel more confident of my position here, and less intimidated by Fr. Mac, than the young naïve priest who walked in to deal with the new confessional a year ago. I'm going to stand up to him more when I think he is acting against what I believe is true and right.

Christmas and New Year were very busy, so it was good that Fr. Mac thought that February was a good time for me to have a break. Going home to Manchester and Mum was good, but I do envy Steve who can afford to search out warmer climates like the Caribbean. I meet his new girl friend too. She is terrific, and I am really very happy for him. They even managed to avoid
being trapped by the paparazzi when the vultures found out where they were staying. I think he is handling all the attention very well, but I wouldn't like to be in his shoes. I'm glad as a priest I'm not quizzed too much about my family. I don't think anyone in BallyK is aware of my relationship to Steve; at least no one's mentioned it.

Mum and I had a quiet but very happy time together. We were able to chat about things we don't tend to do in our letters. We just enjoyed each other's company, as it was too cold to go outside much. She really enjoyed listening to my tales about the antics of the locals in BallyK. I don't know what she would say to Fr. Mac if she ever met him. It's one introduction I hope never to make. She worries about what terrible experiences must have turned Assumpta so much against the church. My letters and these stories help her feel she is sharing my life. Steve rings her regularly, but she says she enjoys getting my letters. She described them as being nearly as good as reading a Maeve Binchy novel. Mum feels that she really knows these friends of mine in Ireland, and said she'd love to meet them one day. I'm not sure that I would like Mum coming to Ireland. For some inexplicable reason, I want to keep that part of my life separate from my family.

It seems so natural to refer to these Irish people as 'my friends'. I haven't kept in touch with many of my childhood friends, nor those with whom I went to Uni. People I met in the seminary were never close enough to be called friends. Mostly I didn't feel comfortable sharing my personal thoughts with them. I kept my thoughts to myself except in formal discussions or debates. I feel so much closer to these people, and accepted by most of them as part of their village.

While I was away, Brian Quigley organised a Slave Auction for tomorrow to raise money for the BallyK hospice. It's going to be held on the open land opposite the church. As soon as I got back I was asked to donate 3 hours of my time. I'm going to be sold to the highest bidder; then I have to do whatever my owner asks me to do. It could be a lot of fun. I'm pleased that I was asked. I wonder who'll want to buy me? They can have me for free most days; for confession or a chat or for advice. A thought has just crossed my mind. What if I'm asked to do something that's not appropriate for a priest? I think I'll worry about that if it happens. I'm sure everyone has things they'd refuse to do.
 

Sat, 22 March

It's been a really fine day for this time of year. Brian set up a stage and microphone on the back of his truck, and did the auctioneering. Donal had a thick rope, which was placed around each slave's neck. He then led 'the slave' around the ring looking for bidders. It was rather good fun.

Everyone got into the spirit of the occasion. Assumpta was the first. Brian asked for bids for 'this young, fit, strapping specimen'. There were lots of humorous comments called out. I wish I could remember them all. After a few minutes, I bid five pounds and got the bidding started. I really don't know what I would have done with Assumpta if I'd bought her. Got her to clean my house, or cook my dinner, maybe....?? Anyway I was saved from that possibility as the bidding went up quickly. Eventually Fr. Mac bid twenty pounds for her; way above anything I could afford, and that was that. Everyone, including Assumpta, was wondering what Fr. Mac was going to ask her to do, because it's well known how much they dislike each other.

It was my turn next, I wasn't too sure what I was in for, but it's one way of helping raise money for charity without putting in money I haven't got. Similar to before, the bids started slowly. Niamh bid fifteen pounds, and then Assumpta bid twenty pounds. It stopped here, so I was sold to Assumpta. I was wondering what she had in store for me when I overheard her telling Brendan that she would get me to do whatever Fr. Mac had in mind for her. I felt a little bit disappointed when I heard that. Had I anticipated that Assumpta had something more personal in mind for me?

Someone suggested that Brian should also offer himself up to be sold. He protested, but public demand meant he wasn't able to refuse without being seen as poor sport. Padraig quickly took the stand as auctioneer, and Donal put the rope around Brian's neck. Bidding was very slow. No one must have been game to try to put Brian to work. Eventually, Eamonn bid fifty pence,
then Liam bid one pound, and that is where the bidding stopped. Brian was sold to Liam for one pound.

Brendan was bought by Siobhan. Then a newcomer (who turned out to be Enda Sullivan, singer and lead guitarist in the 1980's band Dark Rosaleen ) arrived and was also talked into volunteering. Niamh, who was the person who'd first persuaded him to join in, bought him. I wondered what she had in mind.

When the auction was finished, a few of us went down to the pub for a pint. Everyone was discussing who'd been bought by whom, and speculated on what they might be asked to do. Siobhan was quite secretive about what she's going to ask Brendan to do.

When I got there, Padraig explained the tradition of the auction to me. He pointed out that no one has ever refused their owner's command, and that I couldn't refuse any order Assumpta gave me. They then proceeded to tell me how the village used to put on an amateur drama to raise money for the hospice, but that Fr. Mac's idea of acting out the lives of saints, meant
that the tradition died out.

I really liked the idea of a play. I suggested that if we could find something that the villagers wanted to see, we'd raise plenty of money for charity.
"Yeah, videos," derided Assumpta, but Padraig was more enthusiastic.
Assumpta decided that as I was already in the pub, and it was lunchtime, I might as well start putting in my three hours straight away. So she put me to work filling the bar shelves, and washing glasses.

Niamh came in with Enda Sullivan. She said she'd bought him to sing in the pub for Assumpta. You can never predict Assumpta's reactions to anything. She was not very impressed, and told Enda that if he wanted to sing, he'd have to audition. Niamh left in a huff, hurt at the lack of appreciation from Assumpta; and Enda was left standing in the bar, looking lost.

A little while later Fr. Mac came in. He was not pleased to see me working in the pub. When he refused to let me serve, I asked Assumpta if I couldn't do something less controversial, like turning water into wine. Fr. Mac was not amused. Assumpta indicated she'd release me if I took Fr. Mac with me. Instead he dismissed me, and insisted on speaking to Assumpta alone. I'm really curious as to what he's going to ask Assumpta to do. Whatever it is, I know she's not going to like it.
 

23 March

Well it looks like we might have a play. Yesterday afternoon Padraig gave me a script he wrote about 10 years ago, called 'Ryan's Mother'. It actually wasn't too bad, I thought. With a few alterations to some of the more raunchy parts it could be a possibility.

I caught up with Padraig this morning. He was thrilled to hear that I liked his play, and even more so when I told him I'd  already discussed the possibility of sponsorship with Brian Quigley. It hadn't exactly been the best time for a talk. Brian was down inside Liam's drain, trying to unblock it. The stench was not pleasant, so I didn't hang around for long. All for one pound. Liam isn't as stupid as he sometimes appears I think.

Padraig thought that Assumpta might make a good Mary, the female lead. I had to agree with him there. We discussed who could play the other lead part, that of the priest. Padraig asked if I'd do it, but with all the love scenes, I didn't think it was at all appropriate, and told Padraig so. We decided to go to the pub and ask Assumpta straight away.

She didn't jump at it, but agreed to read the play. I reluctantly agreed to go along with Padraig's suggestion that we ask Enda to play the part of the priest.
"We don't know if he can act." I said. But Padraig insisted that at least he was used to performing, and as he was resident in BallyK at present, he was local. As we both had some time, we decided that we might as well go and ask him straight away. It seemed he was busy when we arrived, but he agreed to see us in ten minutes.

When he was ready, we explained our project to him, and asked him if he'd play the male romantic interest, the priest.
"Bang up to date, anyway." He said. I'm not sure what he was alluding to, but I thought I'd better not ask. Enda too needed a little persuasion, but when we told him that Assumpta was playing the part of Mary, he agreed to do it. We felt quite relieved when we left, with the main two parts cast.

Next thing that had to be done was to modify the most explicit scenes. I am sure Assumpta wouldn't play it as it was written, nor could we put it on in the village that way either. Fr. Mac would put a stop to that I'm sure.

We nearly had another hiccup when Brian Quigley called. He'd thought about our sponsorship, and had also a call from Fr. Mac. He agreed to our request, on condition that Assumpta agree to accommodate Fr. Mac's three priest friends who were on a golfing holiday, and for whom he had promised to arrange accommodation in a few weeks time. This was what Fr. Mac had asked of Assumpta for his twenty pounds. She'd so far refused to have the priests staying under her roof, so it was not going to be easy.

We went to the pub to ask Assumpta. Using all our persuasive skills, and pointing out to her how Brian was up to his waist in Liam's drain for only one pound, we managed to get her to grudgingly agree. I rang Fr. Mac with the good news, and he was very much relieved. So now we even have our sponsorship sorted. Everything is progressing well, with only the minor parts to be cast.
 

27 March

Rehearsals started today. We've managed to cut out some of the more sexy bits, and Assumpta has agreed to play it as it now stands.

Things were going quite smoothly, with me as the director when Brendan burst in to accuse Padraig of plagiarism. Actually it was worse that that. He called Padraig something like a "Cheating, pillaging, word embezzling, unscrupulous plagiariser". It appears that about 10 years ago both of them were writing a play together, but couldn't agree on many parts. In the end
they had written their plays separately. Then later, Padraig had put the best of both plays together, and so came up with a half decent play. I calmed them both down, and got them to agree to be joint authors. While I had been sorting out the authors, our two lead actors had taken themselves off to the pub, so that ended tonight's rehearsal.

Brendan and Padraig both wanted to leave all the sexy bits in the play, but to my relief Assumpta refused to play it that way. I'm glad I didn't have to face Fr. Mac on that score.
"Not with Enda Sullivan, not even with Jack Nicholson," she said when asked by Padraig. She insisted that there were other ways of communicating passion. I would've been interested to hear her enlarge on this, but with Niamh's reaction, maybe it was just as well that she didn't. It's clear that Niamh is trying to bring Enda and Assumpta together.
 

28 March

Hopefully last night's interruption is the last problem we'll have to overcome, and we can get on with rehearsing. We only have about two weeks left now, so Niamh has agreed to stand in for Assumpta in the pub. I've been able to reorganise my meetings so we can rehearse most evenings. We've also managed to alter the parts so that Assumpta is prepared to play it, and the
authors are agreeable. Thank goodness all our problems have now been sorted out and we can get on with it.
 

30 March

I spoke too soon last night. Our first problem was when Assumpta objected to Enda's hands moving too low on her buttocks. She asked him to keep his hands where she could see them. Both Brendan and Padraig started giving her advice about showing passion, and I realised that they were practically taking over. I told them in no uncertain terms that I was the director and in
charge, and that they were a silent partnership. This led to the second and more serious problem. There was some heated arguing about how close Enda and Assumpta needed to be, and still show the passion that was crucial to the scene.

The commotion startled the hall's resident cat, which was seen by Fionn, Assumpta's Irish setter that Kevin has just brought in. The dog pulled free, and chased the cat, knocking Enda over as it ran across the stage. Enda landed awkwardly, and sprained his ankle. Dr. Ryan says that Enda will only be able to play the part from a wheelchair. Great!! So now we have to find a new leading man, and as I sit here I can't think of anyone who can do it.
 

31 March

Neither Brendan nor Padraig could think of anyone else who'd be a suitable replacement for Enda. So they suggested that I should do it. They argued that as I knew the script, and was a priest it shouldn't be too difficult to act the part of a priest. I started to object, but they said that Assumpta wouldn't have anyone else.
"Did she say that?" I asked incredulously.  It was a bit of wishful thinking too I suppose.

They admitted that she hadn't actually said the words, but that she'd rejected every other person they'd suggested to her. They insisted that as the director, it was my job to talk to her about it. I was very reluctant. I didn't want her to think it was my idea, nor did I want her to turn me down either I suppose. I also realised, as Padraig and Brendan had pointed out, that unless I did it, there was not going to be a play.

I nervously swallowed my pride and tried to find the courage I needed, as I entered the pub. Thankfully I found Assumpta alone in the kitchen mopping the floor.
"You and Me?" she said in surprise when I asked her. I felt quite hurt by her reaction.
"Do I look hot for this or something?" I asked her. I explained that as she had turned down everyone else, this was our last possibility, or there would be no play. I went on to explain how Brian had spent a thousand pounds on costumes, and Kathleen had already ordered the food.

Assumpta reluctantly agreed to do it, when some guests arrived to be booked in. I heard them introduce themselves as Bishop Costello and two parish priests, (Fr. Mac's friends). I made a very hasty retreat via the back door. One part of me felt thrilled at the thought of acting opposite Assumpta, the other part was listening to warning bells, telling me to find someone else before I made a fool of myself. However I honestly can't think of anyone else. I really have no choice, and to be honest, I don't really want anyone else to do it either.

Our first rehearsal was interesting. Assumpta knew most of her lines, and I surprised myself how well I was able to remember mine. Everything went well until the part where we have to kiss. I was terribly nervous. I had sweaty palms, and I could feel my heart was beating loudly. I hoped Assumpta couldn't hear it. The last time I'd kissed a girl, I was still in school.

"We have one night,....maybe less,.... maybe just an hour..... If it's a sin there'll be no repeating it", she said clearly.
It all went smoothly up to the moment of the kiss. It seems Assumpta was nervous too. We were quite awkward at first, I was breathing heavily and I felt the sweat break out as we got into position. Then just at the crucial moment, she pulled back
"I can't do this", she exclaimed. I felt sick in the stomach, and completely devastated when I heard those words.
"Not with all you people there", she added waving her hand around at everyone standing around. I suddenly felt relieved. Besides Padraig and Brendan, there were Liam and Donal who are doing the lights and curtains, and who were watching with amused expressions. To add to the crowd, Brian also walked in at that moment, supposedly to see how his investment was going.

I told them that I agreed with Assumpta; that I didn't feel very comfortable either, and backed her up when she asked for a little privacy. Brendan wanted to know if we were going to ask the audience to wait outside on the night? Assumpta tried to explain that it would be different then. They agreed to go outside, and so we started that part again. Brian left, grumbling that he was paying for a rock star, not a priest.

This time things went better. Assumpta said her lines confidently, and I was able to speak my part clearly. Then as Assumpta took my face in both her hands, and our lips we about to meet, I saw a movement out of the corner of my eye and stopped.
"Peter, we have to finish this", she said gently.
"I don't think so." I replied, because standing there watching us with very black looks on their faces were  Fr. Mac, a bishop and two parish priests.

Assumpta jumped up and ran off, and I was left to face Fr. Mac and Co. on my own. He made some sarcastic remarks about how convincing my performance was. It was an unpleasant ending to something I was so much looking forward to. I was amazed how calm I was in talking to the priests, but when they'd left my heart was racing, and my breathing was not calm at all. I'm reliving those minutes as I write. I can't deny that I'm very disappointed that we were unable to finish our kiss. I wonder what it would've been like. Hopefully I'll find out soon. I'm getting all emotional just thinking about it. And yet I know I'm getting into dangerous waters in this. I just can't seem to help myself.
 

12 April

My emotions are completely out of control. I don't know why God has put me through such bittersweet experiences these last weeks. I don't know what He's trying to tell me, nor what I'm going to do about them. I thought I had my feelings under control, but I know different now. I just hope and pray that no one else is aware of how I feel.

Tonight was the performance of "Ryan's Mother". The village hall was full, and it should raise a lot of money. I was excited as I put on the Medieval costume. Niamh was helping us put on our make up when Brian walked in, followed by a limping Enda. It seems Dr. Ryan managed to give him an anaesthetic spray like they use on footballers, so that Enda could hobble through the performance.

I felt very deflated. I was really looking forward to acting out the part, and I felt cheated at being denied the experience of that kiss. I changed quickly, trying to hide my disappointment.

I watched the play from the back of the hall. It was very good, and the audience loved it. However, I couldn't watch the final kiss, so went outside to get some air. After a minute Fr. Mac came out and joined me. "They make a strong pair," he said. "He could be just what she needs." It was just too painful to think about. I realise now that I have very strong feelings for Assumpta. I've felt drawn to her from the very first day, when she picked me up as I was walking in the rain. These feelings have grown
into something far stronger; something that I shouldn't be feeling as a priest. Assumpta and Enda, that hurts. I can't believe that I'm behaving like a jealous, lovesick teenager. I will have to take myself in hand. No one must guess how I feel about Assumpta.
 

21 May

Not a lot has happened in the last few weeks, but today there have been some rumours that the BallyK National School has to lose a teacher, since its numbers have fallen below fifty-eight. Brendan was particularly worried today, because he's received a letter, asking him to attend a meeting with the school board tomorrow. He's a very good teacher, and it'd be a big loss for BallyK if he were to go. Nevertheless, the meeting might be about something completely different, and we might all be worrying about nothing.
 

22 May

Brendan went to the meeting as requested today. Fr Mac, as the chairman, told him that as the numbers in the school had fallen, and he was the last person in, he was being transferred. When I heard the news, I went to find Brian Quigley, who is also on the board, but he just said to talk to Fr. Mac. He didn't seem to be very interested, nor care much. I have to be in Cilldargan tomorrow, so I will speak to Fr. Mac then. I can't understand why they would chose to lose Brendan. Everyone knows what a good teacher he is.
 

23 May

I called on Fr. Mac this morning to challenge him about Brendan's dismissal. He said that it wasn't him, or the board that made the rules, but it was the ministry. He said that their policy was 'Last in, first out', and Brendan was last in. As well as that, Fr. Mac said that Brendan had told a 10-year-old pupil that she could make up her own mind about going to mass, and her mother had complained. I couldn't believe that Brendan would say that, but until I spoke to him, I couldn't refute this.
 

Sat, 24 May

For most of the day I was worried about Brendan. I went out to his place as I wanted to talk to him, but couldn't find him anywhere. In fact he hadn't been seen by any of the locals since he was told about his job. Luckily Siobhan, who was shopping in Cilldargan this afternoon, saw him in a pub there and spoke to him, telling him that all his friends were worried. She let us know where he was, and a few of us waited and met the six o'clock bus. He wasn't too well, and could hardly walk when he arrived, so I  took him home and gradually sobered him up.

It seems that ten-year-old Eileen misunderstood Brendan's answer to a question she asked. Brendan told her that as an adult, the constitution gave her the right to free choice, including going to mass. He tried to talk to the child's mother, but she wasn't accepting Brendan's explanation. I am convinced Fr. Mac is just using this to get rid of Brendan.

After I left Brendan, I went down to Fitzgerald's, where the regulars had gathered and were discussing the situation. Assumpta suggested that we try a bit of direct action, by taking our protest straight to Fr. Mac. "You're going to have to decide which side you're on." She challenged me. I decided to leave at that point, because I don't think she understands the difficulty of my position. She also doesn't know that I'd already been to talk to Fr. Mac about the board's decision. I can't just go and demonstrate against my own parish priest.
 

Sunday, 25 May

The group must have organised a banner, and rung around a few parents after I left, because a number of them gathered outside the church straight after mass, and left in Padraig's mini-bus. Assumpta gave me a challenging look as they were getting in, but as I was still shaking hands with the congregation as they were leaving the church, I just watched the protesters go.

Afterwards I thought about the unfairness of Fr. Mac's action. I'm quite sure it is due to Fr. Mac that Brendan has been chosen as the one to go. I recalled the time last year when Fr. Mac told me I was being transferred back to Manchester because I was needed back in England. But my information from England was that they were told that I wasn't fitting in. Only Assumpta's petition, signed by most of the village, saved me then. At times Fr. Mac does unfair things to suit his own ends. After remembering my situation last year, I quickly made up my mind to join them, and so followed in my own car.

When I got there the group was quietly standing outside Fr. Mac's house, holding a banner that said 'PARENTS FOR BRENDAN KEARNEY: THE BEST MAN FOR THE JOB.' I parked my car and joined them. To make my position clear, I put my hand on the banner, and stood between Assumpta and Eamonn.

Fr. Mac stormed outside, and spoke directly to me. "What's the meaning of this? Father Clifford, are you with these people?" He asked me. I answered that I was. Assumpta shouted out a comment, which was a bit unfortunate, as it made Fr. Mac even angrier.
"I'll have your respect, Assumpta Fitzgerald." He demanded
"In a parallel world." She laughed nonchalantly.
There were several other people who called out, making Fr. Mac even more furious by the minute. "When you've finished flaunting your liberation theology, I'll see you in my office," he called out to me as he turned and went inside.

I knew that Assumpta approved of my stance, and in myself I knew I was right. However this still didn't make me feel any less apprehensive about facing my very angry parish priest. I had good reason. As soon as I was inside he remonstrated me.
"And on a Sunday too." He fumed. I tried to protest that it was a dignified demonstration, and that all we were asking him to do, was to reconsider Brendan's transfer.

Luckily for Fr. Mac, he was prevented from replying by the arrival of Brian Quigley, who was being shown in by the housekeeper. He was brandishing a bottle of champagne, and he'd obviously already been celebrating elsewhere. He wanted us to join him in drinking to Niamh's pregnancy. I had to go, so I bid my farewells and left them toasting the future baby and its mother's health.

After dinner I called in to Fitzgerald's where Enda was singing to the accompaniment of his guitar and a tape. It sounded very pleasant, and I would've really enjoyed it if I hadn't been aware of the way Assumpta seemed to be looking rather intensely at Enda. Also, Fr. Mac was still drinking with Brian, and he'd obviously had too much. I was pleased that Brendan was sensibly sticking to orange juice.

What was also worrying me was that awhile ago I became aware of the way Enda was using his baby-sitter Aileen, who was in love with him. Enda was taking advantage of her good nature and how she felt about him. I don't want Assumpta to fall for such a man. Actually, to be honest, I don't want Assumpta to fall for any man. But I'm a priest, and I'm jealous. I have to ask for absolution and help to overcome these negative feelings. Otherwise how can I listen to others and give them absolution.

On top all my worries tonight, I found that after all the drinking that Fr. Mac enjoyed this afternoon, and tonight in BallyK, he wasn't able to drive home to Cilldargan; so Brian let him into my house, to sleep in my bed. That's why I'm now sitting down here in my sitting room writing this before I try to get some sleep on my couch. I don't think it's going to be easy either, with the snoring I can hear coming from my bedroom above.
 

26 May

It wasn't a good night. Then at 4 am Brendan came banging on my door. He had something important to tell me, so because I was fairly wide awake anyway, I suggested we go for a walk in the pleasant crisp semi-darkness. The first strands of dawn were just appearing on the eastern horizon. Brendan told me that he'd just found out that Enda has his young son living with him, who he hoped to enroll in the BallyK school. This would bring the numbers up to fifty-eight again. I rang Brian as soon as we got back. I don't think he appreciated the early call, but I enjoyed getting him back for my sleepless night. It's a rather an
unpriestly feeling to have, but I am human after all.

Just as Brian arrived, Fr. Mac came down, looking rather worse for wear. I'd made four mugs of coffee, so we gathered around the table and Brendan happily told them how Enda's son starting in the BallyK school would raise the numbers back up to fifty-eight. "Thus entitling the Board of Management to take back the third teacher", I finished off. Fr. Mac was seething. Brian looked around the room and muttered something about a rent increase.
 

13 July

For quite awhile I've been concerned about the low numbers of parishioners coming regularly to mass. The numbers have always been lower in winter than in summer, but now in the warmer months the numbers haven't picked up. On top of this, the regulars are nearly all older members of the village. I need to get the younger ones coming more regularly. I know it is a  problem the world over, and not just in the Catholic Church either. However I have to see what I can do.

I've arranged for the mass next Sunday to start an hour later, but my instinct tells me that it's not going to make a lot of difference. What I need is to make coming to mass more interesting and relevant to the younger people of the parish.
If we're not relevant to people's lives, then there's no point to our existence.
 

15 July

I decided to go to Cilldargan to talk to Fr. Mac about my concern over the low numbers at mass. He was not very helpful, and basically said it was my responsibility. He then pointed out that our electricity bill was due soon, and I wouldn't want to be responsible for Ireland's first disconnected church. He is so supportive and encouraging is our parish priest????? He seems to know when to step in (interfere), and when to leave us to our own devices, like when there is work to be done.

When I got back into my car to go home I was feeling quite depressed and preoccupied with my problem. I found that while waiting at a red traffic light, I turned up the volume on the radio, which was broadcasting a gospel song with a very catchy tune. I suddenly realised that not only were my fingers beating in time to the beat, but also my whole depression seemed to diminish. It gave me an idea. I turned the car around and stopped outside the Cilldargan music shop. I asked the owner if he had some sheet music for gospel songs.

While I was waiting, I saw Enda there, trying out a new guitar he hoped to buy.
"What are you doing on Sunday morning?" I asked him.
After hesitating a few moments he answered, "Going to mass?"
"That's just what I was hoping you'd say." I replied. I asked him if he would be willing to lead a folk mass, and I showed him the sheet music the proprietor had found for me.

Between us we chose a number of suitable songs, and left together, feeling enthusiastic about trying it this Sunday. I'm not looking forward to telling Kathleen, our regular organist about the new style of mass this week. I will have to do it very tactfully.
 

17 July

It appears that Enda sent Assumpta some flowers, and has taken her out tonight. Niamh has been trying to get them together ever since he arrived in BallyK on the day of the auction. She was very keen for Assumpta to go out with him, and insisted on looking after the bar, to give Assumpta the night off. Niamh is very much trying to match-make I fear.

Enda and Assumpta left together, to try an Italian restaurant recommended by Niamh. I left soon afterwards, as the pub just didn't have the same attraction after Assumpta left. Also I didn't want to sit and listen to the others discussing the possibility of Assumpta and Enda getting together, as Niamh was hoping. I decided to go to the church and finish the poster to advertise the folk mass.

When I'd finished, I found Aileen, Enda's babysitter sitting in a pew. She'd been crying, and looked upset. She admitted to feeling jealous of Assumpta going out with Enda. I knew exactly how it felt, but couldn't very well say this to her. It tried to comfort her by suggesting maybe Enda did love her, but was just not very good at showing it. I don't know if I really believe
this myself, but it was all I could think of to give some comfort to Aileen. I suggested she talks to Enda and ask him what he really wanted. She said she couldn't do that. Foolishly I offered to have a word with Enda. She seemed to be relieved at this, but I don't know what I'm going to say to him. What if he has even an inkling of my feelings for Assumpta? I am not looking forward to doing this tomorrow.
 

18 July

I have always tried to live by the philosophy that if there's something unpleasant that you don't want to do, then rather than put it off, and worry about doing it, it's best to do it right away, and get it over with. Then you can get on with handling the consequences, which mostly are not as bad as originally imagined. So I set off first thing this morning to do the two things that I wasn't looking forward to.

Firstly I went to speak to Kathleen, and let her know that she didn't have to play the organ this Sunday. Her reaction was exactly as I'd predicted. Instead of being glad to have a day off, she flounced out, saying something about possibly not being available again.

Next I drove out to Enda's cottage. He was still wearing what he'd slept in, and was practicing on his guitar. I asked him if he'd had a good time last night. He explained it was good until he'd got home to find his son Feargal acting up. Feargal had run away back home from Padraig's, where he was being minded.

I suggested that maybe Feargal needed a little more stability in his life. Enda looked at me very hard, and asked me whom I'd been talking to. He said that he loved his son, but that he wasn't going to let Feargal or anyone else, for that matter, tell him who he should or shouldn't go out with.

I got the message, but felt sorry for Aileen, and also for Feargal.
 

19 July

Fr. Mac dropped in this morning and wanted to know why I wasn't using the organ tomorrow for the folk mass. Obviously Kathleen hadn't wasted any time in contacting him to complain. I explained that I'd asked Enda to play on the guitar, and that I hoped that the folk music might be more relevant to some of the young people of the parish. I reassured him that I was only
trying it, and if it was successful, maybe we could do it once a month.

The possibility of bigger collections seemed to mollify him, and he agreed, so long as we didn't sing "Michael row the Boat Ashore', which I happily accepted.
 

Sunday, 20 July

The mass was a great success. The church was packed, and Brian Quigley filmed it as part of a film about BallyK that he wants to send to a cousin in America. He plans to use it to try to encourage more tourists to come and see this part of Ireland.

Enda was great. Even Fr. Mac, sitting next to a scowling Kathleen, seemed to join in by tapping the beat with his feet. At the end of the service he grudgingly agreed it would be OK to do a folk mass every now and then. Everyone I spoke to all day congratulated us on a good idea. I hope I can get Enda to continue. He certainly was the kingpin to its success.
 

12 August

Well I've had a long day today, and no sleep at all last night, but I want to write everything down before I forget it all. Last night the rain was pouring down as I went to bed. I'd  just turned off my light at about ten thirty, when the doorknocker was banged. I was not very happy when I went to the door to find no one there. I thought it might have been a prankster when I heard a car pulling away. I went out to the road to see a, red car driving very fast down towards the bridge. It was too far off to see any
registration numbers unfortunately, but I was quite sure it was red, possibly a Ford.

As I turned to go back inside, I noticed a cardboard box by the door. I took it in, and when I lifted the plastic cover, there was a tiny baby. I lifted it out. It was sucking its thumb, and was completely oblivious to the terrible turn that had just occurred in its young life.

I rang Dr. Ryan, who agreed to come immediately; and he was true to his word. After a quick examination he discovered that the baby was a little boy, whom he estimated to be less than a day old. The umbilical cord had probably been cut with blunt scissors he thought, but otherwise the baby looked OK. There was another knock on the door. I said to Michael that I hoped it wasn't twins. It was Assumpta, who was out walking Fionn. She'd seen the doctor's car outside, and wondered if I was sick. I think she was quite taken with the baby when we showed him to her. Michael made a phone call to the social services to report the baby, while we cooed over it and wondered who would abandon such a beautiful child.

I told her that I thought the baby must have come from outside BallyK, because I didn't recognise the car, nor did I know anyone local who was expecting a baby at present.
"Not officially anyway," she said, "it wouldn't be the first time that a girl gave birth in secret. It comes from living in a country where some people think family planning means getting the kids to mass on time."
"Don't tell me it is the church's fault again," I said, feeling exasperated with her attitude.
"Well you don't exactly make things easy, do you?" she replied.

I was trying to think of a reply to this, when Michael came back to ask me if I could look after the little fellow until a social worker could come and collect him. It could be overnight he added. I hesitated, then Assumpta offered to stay and help me. I have to admit I was quite relieved, because I felt a bit nervous of having the sole responsibility of the baby by myself all night.

Michael went home and brought back a bottle with boiled water, and some nappies in case we needed it, and Assumpta took Fionn home and returned with some midnight snacks for us. She cradled the little fellow while I made us some coffee. She looked so beautiful holding him in her arms and making faces at him. It made my heart skip a beat when I came in and saw her that way. Later when I'd finished my coffee, I took him, so she could finish her coffee. He just trustingly watched my face, as he lay in my arms. I caught Assumpta looking at me, and I wondered what she was thinking. I didn't dare ask. We decided to put him to bed in the large cardboard box he'd arrived in. Assumpta seemed to know about putting a clean nappy on, and after that, the little fellow was thankfully no trouble, and slept most of the night. Michael had estimated him to be only a few hours old. He was very tiny.

We again wondered who'd abandon such a sweet and helpless little baby. We both felt concerned that he would grow up not knowing whom his mother or father was, and believing that he wasn't wanted. Assumpta described the difficulties of a friend who was adopted at birth, and was trying to find her birth mother. Her friend believed that her mother mustn't have loved her, to give her up for adoption, and had a real phobia about being rejected.

We talked some more about the lack of sex education in some families, and the pressures young people are under today. How the impression they get by watching TV and videos gives them an unrealistic picture of life.

It ended up being a long night, but very pleasant. Assumpta confided that after watching some videotape that Brian had taken of Enda, it confirmed what Feargal had told her, that Enda had strong feelings for Aileen. She explained how she thought Enda needed to grow up, and be more responsible with regard to his relationship with both his son and Aileen. I felt very relieved to hear this, but decided to turn our conversation to a safer topic.

I turned on some music quietly, and we discussed what music and TV we liked. It seems that neither of us have much time to watch TV these days, so we talked more about what we'd liked in our Uni. and college days. The time passed quite quickly, and I'm amazed how we didn't antagonise each other at all. It must be a record for us. At about five o'clock, as the little fellow
was sleeping peacefully, Assumpta decided to slip home to get a little rest. I think she also wanted to avoid being seen leaving my house early in the morning, and having to answer awkward questions. For this I'm very thankful. I decided to dose a little myself while it was quiet, but it wasn't for long as the baby woke up about an hour later. I changed his nappy as best I could, having watched Assumpta earlier, then gave him some of the water Michael had left.

The social workers arrived at about nine, not long after Michael returned and Fr. Mac turned up. Michael had rung him in case he knew of someone in Cilldargan who was expecting a baby. I'm glad Michael didn't mention Assumpta's name at all. The social workers took the baby to the Cilldargan hospital where he was checked over thoroughly. After a certain time, if his
mother isn't found, he'll be adopted.

After Fr. Mac had gone, I asked Michael what he thought could be done to prevent this sort of thing. I'd been thinking about it after what Assumpta had said. I wondered if there wasn't the possibility of some sort of sex education for the teenagers of the area. Michael thought it a good idea, and suggested I talk to the Youth Club.
"The novelty of a priest talking about sex should get them along", he said.
I called into Fitzgerald's to report to Assumpta about how 'our baby' had faired after she'd left. I ran my plan of giving a talk to the Youth Club past her. She thought it a good idea, but like me, was aware that it wouldn't be easy holding the attention of a room full teenagers. I asked her how teenagers in Ireland learnt the facts of life? She said that she learnt most of it in the back row of the Ritzy cinema. That gave me an idea.

What was needed was to capture the youngster's attention with a film. The problem was to find a suitable film. I went to see what Kathleen had. Her range was very limited. She suggested "Gone with the Wind". When I said that I was looking for something that would appeal to a younger audience. She was quite horrified, and declared she didn't keep those sorts of videos. I'm not sure what she thought I wanted, but it was obvious that I'd have to look in Cilldargan to find the sort of film that might interest the teenagers.
 

13 August

The police have found a red Ford saloon, similar to what I saw the other night, abandoned near a council estate in Cilldargan. I decided to go and have a look around this afternoon.

When I arrived there were some boys playing football nearby. I asked them about the abandoned car, but they said they didn't know anything about it. However, there was something about the reaction of one small boy in a Liverpool jumper that attracted my attention. I looked around for a little while longer, then keeping my distance, I followed this boy home.

After he'd gone in, I went to the door and knocked. It was answered by a young man in his late teens. I introduced myself, and said that I was visiting the area, could I come in. He stood aside, and indicated for me to come in. The flat was messy, and full of drying washing and other paraphernalia. When I asked, the young man, he introduced himself as Roy Quinn, and the little boy was his brother Sean. Roy excused himself, as he had to put tea on. It gave me a moment to look around. It was obviously a Catholic family. I followed Roy into the kitchen.

"Do you go into Ballykissangel yourself?" I asked him.
"What would I want to go there for?" He replied, looking a little uncomfortable.
"You tell me." I replied. Roy turned back to the meal he was preparing.
"I haven't been there in ages", he said.
I asked him about his parents. He explained that his father worked in Dublin all week, only coming home at weekends, and his mother had left them. I could see that Roy was anxious for me to leave. I didn't want to add to his stress, so I took my leave, suggesting I might drop by at a better time. I offered that if he wanted to talk to me about anything, he knew where to find me.

Sadly, as if an abandoned baby isn't enough, Niamh has suffered a miscarriage. Assumpta told everyone in the bar this evening, so that we didn't accidentally say something that might upset her and Ambrose even more than they were already.

Ambrose has been laid up in bed with a sprained ankle these last few days. I'm not sure I understand how it happened. One version I've heard says he slipped on the soap getting out of the bath, but I've also heard he fell on the stairs carrying some heavy police files. Meanwhile, we have an ex-prison warden, Guard McMullen filling in. Most people, except Brian Quigley who hopes to take advantage of Ambrose being out of the way, can't wait to have Ambrose back on his feet.
 

14 August

I had to go into Cilldargan again today, to get Fr. Mac's OK about my giving a talk to the Youth Club. He was not very happy about it, and accused me of teaching sex to children. I stood my ground, something I may not have done a year ago, and insisted that we had a moral responsibility to try to do something to prevent any more unwanted babies being dumped on our doorstep. I assured him that I would deal with the subject of relationships tastefully, and in line with the teachings of the church. After some time he grudgingly agreed to let. me do the talk. When I left, I decided to call in on the Quinn family again, so drove to their house. When I knocked, a teenage girl opened a window above the door. I introduced myself and she said that she was Gráinne, Roy's sister. I suddenly guessed where the baby might have come from, and felt deep sympathy for this family.
"May I come in?" I asked. She refused.
"I want to help, Gráinne", I said quietly.
"I don't need any help", she replied, and firmly closed the window. I went back to my car and decided to wait. When after a short while Roy and Sean came around the corner, I got out and waited for them to reach me. I greeted them, then asked Roy if I could talk to him alone, in the car.
"I know about the baby, Roy." I said.
"What baby?" he asked trying to look puzzled.
"Come on Roy, it wasn't me who was born yesterday", I replied. I asked him if he had helped with the birth. He nodded miserably. I told him that I wanted to help, but I needed his help first. I persuaded him to take me back to Gráinne.

When I told her I knew about the baby, she asked me how he was. I told her that he would probably be adopted. She stated that he'd probably be better off with a mother who could take care of him. I tried to protest that if she was taking care of this whole family alone, she could take care of the baby. I tried to point out that she wouldn't be alone, that there was help
available for her. She insisted that she was OK, and refused to see a doctor. She believed that if a social worker found out, they would all be split up. I left them without finding a solution.
 

16 August

My talk to the Youth Club went reasonably well, in that the teenagers seemed to listen and respond. Guard McMullen was a pain though. Michael Ryan was there for moral support, and he also thought it went OK. I'll never know if I was able to do any good, or if I was able to prevent any unwanted pregnancies, all I can do is try.

Michael had a call from the hospital just after my talk. Gráinne had collapsed at home, and had been admitted to Cilldargan hospital. I went with Michael, and we found out that their father had just returned from Dublin when it happened. There is a happy ending to this story for the Quinn family, as Gráinne is going to keep the baby, and the family isn't going to be split up.

When I saw Assumpta later, I was able to tell her that 'our baby' was going to be all right. I enjoyed calling him that, but I had to be careful no one else was in earshot. It could've caused a quite a stir if someone like Kathleen had overheard. Actually I'd love to stir her a bit, but with Fr. Mac being the sort of person he is, it's definitely not a good idea.
 

31 August

Only Fr. Mac could do what happened today. After much arguing to persuade me that I needed a housekeeper, I gave in and agreed to go with him to Kathleen's house to meet her widowed cousin, who was looking for work as a housekeeper.

When the moment we arrived, and he saw that she was an attractive woman of about forty, he said it was unfortunate, that we'd had such a position up to this morning but ........., and he left me to come up with a reason. I mumbled something vague about parish finances not being there. Fr. Mac immediately backed me up, indicating that the collection was down at present.

Brian Quigley arrived at just that minute, so Fr. Mac asked him if he knew of anyone in the parish who was looking for a housekeeper at present. We left them discussing how Brian could use someone now that Niamh was married. Then as we left, Fr. Mac admonished me for not letting him know earlier that we couldn't afford a housekeeper, and how this had embarrassed him. No matter how wrong Fr. Mac turns out to be, he always manages to turn it around so it looks like it's someone else in the wrong. Sometimes I would dearly like the opportunity to turn the tables on him; he makes me so angry.
 

10 September

I'm a bit worried about Ambrose and Niamh. They are both very unhappy and grieving the loss of their unborn baby. However they're doing it separately, and not supporting each other, or grieving together. Niamh and Assumpta have had a falling out over something, and Assumpta is flat out trying to run the pub on her own, while Peggy (her regular help) is off with appendicitis. If
only Niamh could be persuaded to get out of her misery and help Assumpta. It would give her something else to think out about other than the sad loss she's suffered.
 

11 September

Tonight after visiting some parishioners, I walked past Fitzgerald's just as it closed. Assumpta was very busy and looked very tired and despondent. Peggy was still off sick, so Assumpta was doing everything on her own. She looked like she could do with some help, so I rolled my sleeves up and started to collect the glasses, and empty the ashtrays.

She said what she needed was a self-service pub, so that the punters could get their own pints and just pay at the check out. I replied that that way they wouldn't get to savor her sparkling wit and repartee.
"They can pay extra for it", she retorted.

We exchanged a few other comments along these lines, and then to pass the time, and keep the conversation safe I started to tell her about the exploits of some of the Allenstown boys, who have temporarily joined the BallyK school. It included their skipping school to spend time making long confessions in the church, then being locked in Kathleen's storeroom until Ambrose arrived. They had bombed him with flour and eggs, and it wasn't until Niamh arrived that they'd been sorted out. She seemed to be the only one able to get the six boys under control. I told Assumpta how we hoped helping out at the school might give Niamh something else to occupy her mind, and her get over the loss of the baby.

Assumpta opened a bottle of wine and poured two glasses.
"Who needs extra staff when you have the intercession of the church", she said flippantly.
"Don't start relying on me", I warned, "I'm not the reliable type."
"You're more reliable than most of them", she said, "You're the only one who gives a damn". She had probably already had a bit too much to drink, and was obviously feeling despondent and depressed. I had a feeling she might say something she'd regret later, so I changed the subject.
"So what was this terrible thing that Niamh said to you?" I asked
"When?   Oh that", she said.  It was something about me always wanting what I couldn't have".
She looked at me with a more serious expression on her face.
"Do you ever want what you can't have?" She asked.
I felt a bit uncertain and hesitated "Yeah." I answered, swallowing a nervous laugh.
"And what stopped you?"
Again I hesitated and she repeated her question.
"Me, I suppose." I replied.
"Why?   What are you afraid of?" She persisted.
I feared that this conversation was getting us into dangerous territory. I was aware that we'd both had a bit to drink.
"Nothing," I lied. "Well I'm afraid that I have to say mass at eight." I added nonchalantly
"So that's it?   Its that simple?"  She asked harshly, the friendly atmosphere having suddenly disappeared.
"What?" I was taken by surprise at the anger in her voice.
"Never mind. Go on. I'm tired." She was now quite cold. I thought that I'd better take the hint and go. I didn't like to leave her that way, but to stay and try to comfort her was even more dangerous, so I pulled my coat on.
"You'll go to bed then?" I asked gently
"I might do," she replied  "Some of us have free will."
"We all do." I told her, trying to sound calm. "Good night then."
"Good night. .. And thanks" She replied coldly.

I decided to leave. The companionship of earlier was gone. I'm not really sure what went wrong. I think Assumpta wanted to talk, but as the conversation seemed to be leading us into deep water, I'd  tried to avoid getting myself into a situation I couldn't handle. I wonder what might've happened if I had told her what it was, that I really wanted and couldn't have.
 

13 Sept

This afternoon I popped my head around the pub door to tell Assumpta that I'd spoken to Peggy's mum. She'd told me that Peggy would be back at work on Monday, as long as Assumpta promised not to make Peggy laugh. Assumpta looked at me coldly.
"I think I can manage that." She said. I offered to moonlight in the meantime if she wished.
"I don't thanks." She said curtly. I was a hurt by her abrupt answer, and worried about her looking so tired.
"You'll be all right? I asked, feeling genuinely concerned.
"Not really. It's just easier by myself." I realised that something was very wrong, so I went in.
"Assumpta?"
"I don't mind the regulars." She said. "I can rely on them to let me down. But you....."
"What have I done?" I asked. I was completely confused.
"We were starting to have a conversation. You walked out." She accused. I still wasn't sure what I had done that had upset her so much. "What sort of friend are you?" She added. "You're there for everyone else, but when I want to talk, you run off. You couldn't even look at me", she accused. I was completely confused. I hadn't been aware of this..

All I wanted to do was take her into my arms and tell her why I had run off. That the last thing I wanted to do was hurt her, or make life even more difficult for her than it was at present. But I couldn't do that.
"I never wanted to upset you," I said gently.
"Well you managed it all the same." She replied. She was getting more emotional and angry and went over to the door. "Just make up your mind where your priorities lie, OK?" She said, and opened the door.
"Look, this is silly." I tried to protest.
"Until then, please don't come into my bar."
There wasn't much I could do. I felt wretched, so I left and had the door practically slammed behind me. I felt sorry that I'd upset Assumpta.

I can't think of anything I can do to mend the situation, except stay away for awhile. I am thankful that Peggy will be back in two days. It breaks my heart to see Assumpta trying to do it all on her own. It's not something I can talk to Niamh about. Assumpta told me to think about my priories. My priorities are my duties as a priest, and as a servant of God. Trying to be
there, as a friend for Assumpta is part of my priorities, so I'm not really sure what she meant by that last sentence. How can I be her friend, and help her. She is so unpredictable. I'd like to enjoy her company without getting us talked about by the rest of the village. The night at my house a few weeks ago when we looked after the abandoned baby was so pleasant. She was
relaxed and we had such an enjoyable time together; but if the rest of the village had found out, they would've disapproved very strongly. A priest not only has to do the right thing, he has to appear to be doing the right thing.

I wonder how different our relationship would be if I wasn't a priest. Would we be more than just friends? I really don't know for sure how Assumpta feels about me, but sometimes I think that the attraction is mutual. I can never let her know how I feel about her. This whole thing is a real mess. How did I get myself into this situation? I've just remembered Jenny's words. She predicted it would happen again, and it has, only this time it's very different, and I'm not going to run away. I'll just have to live with it, sleep on it, and pray about it.
 

1 Oct

I've managed to stay away from the pub for the last two weeks, by keeping myself occupied with my church duties. No one has commented, so hopefully they just think I've been too busy to call in. I've been working with Brendan and Niamh to try to get a number of items organised for the Ballykissangel Festival. It's now less than a week away.

In fact I dropped into Fitzgerald's tonight to collect Brendan and take him to Brian's for another meeting of the organising committee.

When I arrived, Brendan and Padraig were trying to get an unwilling Assumpta to help. They were accusing her of not having any community spirit. They then turned on me, asking for a little 'divine intervention' that they thought was needed to persuade her to get involved. I felt rather put on the spot after our last encounter, so ignoring Assumpta, I spoke to Brendan and Padraig, telling them that 'what we wanted was willing and enthusiastic volunteers, not people who had no interest'. It was a bit below the belt, but Assumpta had hurt me, and suppose I wanted to give her little taste of her own medicine.

With that Brendan finished his drink, and we left together, leaving Assumpta to think about whether she wanted to be involved or not. I wondered what was being said about my comments as we left; I'm not usually as cutting as that.

Brendan had finalised the timetable of all the day's events. As well as all the usual items such as the Irish dancing, reciting and singing, there was a new entry listed as 'The Lily of Ballykissangel'. Brendan said that it was Brian's contribution, so we asked Brian what it was all about. He explained that it was a beauty contest. He's managed to get a bottled spring water company, Babbling Brook, to sponsor it. He explained that they were looking for a new face for their advertising campaign. He justified it being in an Irish cultural festival as being a celebration of Irish beauty. I thought it was a bit far fetched, and didn't feel fully comfortable about it, but the festival is too close to stop it now anyway. The competition is open to all girls under the age of twenty-four and native to BallyK. Babbling Brook representatives will provide the judges, he told us. I was a bit relieved to
hear this, because I had wondered if Brian wanted to be the judge as well. After dinner I decided to go down to the bar and test the water, to see if I was welcome there again or not.  Also after two weeks I was a bit sick of my own company every evening. I'd hardly put my nose around the door when Brendan called me over, to introduce me to a newcomer. She was a very attractive young lady, called Naomi. She is Eamonn's niece from Dublin, who was originally born in BallyK. Her presence was quite a novelty, and I was amused by all the males hovering around her.
 

2 Oct

Kathleen had a go at me this morning regarding the beauty contest. It seems she disapproves of it, and so expects me to stop it.

At the pub later on, some of the regulars were discussing it too. Siobhan was particularly outspoken, saying it was just for making money out of 'stupid vain women and dirty old men'. That it was just a glorified cattle market. Unfortunately Brian walked in at just that moment and overheard all her remarks.
"It's been a long time since you qualified for a beauty contest of any kind, if ever." he said to her.
Siobhan's face fell, and she immediately walked out of the pub. I told Brian that he was out of order. I have a feeling that he regretted it as soon as he'd said it, but it still it doesn't undo the hurt it caused.

I wanted to go after her, but the others felt that she'd be best left alone for awhile. Brendan offered to call in and see her on his way home.

Amazingly, Assumpta seems to have forgiven and forgotten our row. She came up to me and said that Brian was lucky that she was on her side of the bar or she might have lumped him one. I confided that the thought had also crossed my mind. We exchanged conspiratory glances and I knew we were friends again. I wonder for how long? When will we have the next clash, and over what?
 

3 Oct

Well, not only do I get myself into impossible situations. but so do my flock. So maybe we're all just human, with imperfect judgement, and a talent for getting ourselves into trouble.

It appears that Brendan as intended, called in at Siobhan's house last night to check on her. She'd been drinking, and he joined her by having some too. He tried to comfort her, but before he knew what was happening, the comfort became more personal, and one thing lead to another. He told me this morning that he woke up in Siobhan's bed, with a thumping headache.

Now he's trying to avoid her, because he thinks that she's in love with him, and he doesn't want to hurt her. How do we manage to get ourselves into these situations? More importantly, how do we get out of them? I have found myself thinking of their predicament all day. Brendan confided in me, but I really need a female to talk to Siobhan.

I decided to risk my neck, and trusting that our present friendly mood would hold, I went to see Assumpta. I knew I could rely on her discretion, so I told her what had happened, and asked her if she would talk to Siobhan.

She wasn't very keen at first, and insisted that it was none of her business.
"We can't just stand by and watch them fall out over this." I pleaded.
Assumpta said that it might work out, but if it didn't and it ruined a friendship, these things happen.
"I hate to see people I care about get hurt." I said persuasively. She reluctantly agreed to try if she got a chance.
"What are friends for?" she said flippantly, but with a smile.

I can't fathom her out. One minute she is accusing me of not caring for her as I do the others, a few days later she is acknowledging that we are friends. I never know what she is going to do next. She is the most unpredictable and confusing female I know, and I love her. There I've said it and written it down. I love Assumpta Fitzgerald and she drives me crazy,
but I can't even let her guess how I feel.
 

Sat. 4 Oct

Today was the day of the Ballykissangel Festival, and on the whole, except for a few minor incidents, it went well. Assumpta and I managed to get Brendan and Siobhan together at the end of the festival, and they seem to have sorted themselves out, and settled back down to the casual friendship they've had since I've known them.

Assumpta told me that Siobhan discovered that the girl claiming to be Eamonn's niece Naomi, was an impostor. She's actually the daughter of a business associate of Brian Quigley's, who wants to get into modeling. She'd hoped to be chosen as the Lily of BallyK, because one of the prizes was a modeling contact. A local girl, Deirdre Patrick, who seems to have been a very popular choice, won the beauty contest. So nothing was said publicly about who Naomi really was.
 

5 Oct

There's been a lot of panic and heartache in BallyK tonight. Some of the punters who were leaving Fitzgerald's about eleven, noticed smoke coming from Kathleen's house. They raised the alarm and quickly formed a human chain with buckets of water. Luckily Kathleen noticed the smoke about the same time, and gotten out safely, but she was naturally very upset. Assumpta
and Dr. Ryan looked after her at the pub while the rest of us tried to put the fire out.

I found myself in the hottest spot nearest the flames, and I can tell you it was hot. Brian made some comments about only a priest being able to stand so close to the flames of hell.

It sadly appears that Kathleen has let her insurance lapse, so that's a problem not just for Kathleen, but for all of us who don't want to lose the convenience of her store. Some of us are going to meet in Fitzgerald's in the morning to see what can be done.
 

6 Oct

Today was a busy and mixed up day with a very depressing ending. In fact I can probably say now, that today has been the worst day of my life in this town.

Early this morning, we inspected the blackened shell that had until last night been Kathleen's home. We managed to persuade Kathleen to let Ambrose take her to her sister's home. The rest of us met in the pub to discuss what had to be done, and who would do what.

Brian had already volunteered Liam and Donal's labour for stripping the walls and painting. Brendan and I offered to help them as it was a big task. Padraig said he would organise the rewiring, and it was decided that Assumpta should help Niamh in choosing new carpets, curtains and furniture. Padraig had a contact in Cilldargan he was sure would offer them a good deal. Everyone helped get the monetary collection started there and then, and we all agreed to try and collect more as we went to work on what ever we had been allocated.

It was dirty work, but reasonably enjoyable in that we were all working together. Siobhan, Brendan and I were working in Kathleen's sitting room during the afternoon when Niamh and Assumpta returned with carpet and wall paper samples. They've ordered the basic furniture needed, and it came to two thousand, five hundred pounds with the very good discount that Padraig's friend has given us. It will be delivered on Monday in six days time; cash on delivery.  At that moment the kitty stood at one hundred and fifty pounds; so it was still a long way off what was needed.
"How are we going to turn one hundred and fifty pounds into two thousand, five hundred?" asked Assumpta.
"A miracle?" said Brendan, pointing to me.
"Don't look at me." I replied. "I flunked miracles at the seminary."

Siobhan mentioned that there was a dog race at Enniscorthy tonight in which a dog called 'Black Dazzler' was almost certain to win. Everyone thought it was a good idea to use it to try to increase our collection. So we all arranged to meet at the dog races tonight.

Late this afternoon, two sources of information, one in the confessional, told me that the dog race was fixed. My informants said that the dog 'Black Dazzler' had been ringed, and I was advised that we should put our money on the second dog. It had earlier been decided that we should all put a portion of the collection on the same dog at the same time to keep up the price.
Just as we were about to split up, I stopped them and told them about my information. Siobhan agreed that my information might be better than hers, so we decided to follow this latest information, and put our bets on ''Tarbet Warrior', the second favourite. I knew that the responsibility of the money was now no longer Siobhan's, but mine. The race was started, and my heart was in my mouth. It was soon obvious that my information was not correct. Black Dazzler led most of the way and was a
clear winner. Instead of doubling our money, I had caused us to lose the lot. We were a rather quiet and subdued group who returned home to BallyK tonight. The situation was desperate enough when we'd collected only two hundred pounds by mid-afternoon, but now we don't even have that. Only a miracle can save us I think. I wish I'd kept the information to myself, but Niamh was very persistent when I'd hesitated.
 

7 Oct

I woke up this morning with a headache and a hangover, knowing that I'd lost all the money that had been collected, and that there seemed to be little chance of getting Kathleen's house fixed up for her in time.

I headed down to Fitzgerald's to apologise again and to see if anyone had had a brainwave overnight. Siobhan was very forgiving, and pointed out that betting is always a matter of tips and whispers. Padraig asked me what I wanted to drink, and I realised that they'd already forgiven me. What a wonderful group of friends they are. I don't think Kathleen appreciates how
great they are.

The regular trio was having a game of poker when I came in. Michael Ryan came in with another one hundred pounds that he'd collected on his rounds, when Siobhan had just won another game. Michael asked her if she'd ever thought of playing cards for a living.

That comment gave Brendan an idea. He suggested we hold a poker tournament to raise the money for Kathleen's house. Niamh, Padraig and Brendan were very keen, and were quickly trying to sort out the details. Niamh agreed to get Ambrose out of BallyK to make an overdue visit to his mother on Sunday. Only Assumpta (whose license is at risk) and I (who doesn't really agree with gambling, especially after the dog racing effort) are less than enthusiastic. However, we had very little choice but to go along with it. There seems to be no other way to raise the required amount of money by Monday.
 

10 Oct

News of the Poker Tournament has been spread throughout the county by word of mouth and a small flier. At the same time we've all been working hard scrapping and painting in Kathleen's house every available minute. The work is on schedule, and nearly finished. It's looking a lot better than it did five days ago. It's amazing how such a tragedy pulls everyone together.
 

Sat. 11 Oct

By late this afternoon we had 25 poker players signed up; so that is good news. It gives us five tables of five players. Kathleen's house is almost ready, and all we need now is for Siobhan to win tomorrow, so we can use the money to pay for the furniture and carpet that we've committed ourselves to.
 

13 Oct

Well the poker tournament was very long winded, and didn't finish until this morning, but it was a great success. There were nevertheless some very anxious moments. Kathleen is back, and was overwhelmed by her new home. I'd better start at the beginning, as it is a good story, with a happy ending.

Fitzgerald's was already packed when I arrived, just before the contest was about to start. Siobhan was very nervous, and was not being helped by Brendan and Padraig's idea of reassurance.

Assumpta called everyone to attention, and announced that all the contestants were being asked to donate 10% of their winnings to the fund for Kathleen's house. Also, if Siobhan won, she would donate all her winnings to the fund. I found myself being nominated as referee, even though I knew nothing about poker. Brendan and Padraig promised to advise me should the
need arise.

Gradually, as the afternoon wore on, some unlucky players started to drop out. At six o'clock I left to say mass, then hurried back to watch. It wasn't very inspiring, and is definitely not a good spectator sport. One of those things one has to do in the line of duty I suppose. Slowly the number of players and spectators dwindled as the early losers went home.

By the early hours of the morning it became obvious that Mossy Phelan, an old adversary of Brian Quigley's, was doing well, and Siobhan was also still left. Most of the spectators who were left were either having a nap, or were quietly sipping a drink and indulging in subdued conversation. By half past three in the morning there was only one table of five players left. They were three locals from Cilldargan, Siobhan and Mossy Phelan. The contest appeared to be between Phelan and Siobhan, and the sense of anticipation could be felt in the room. A few people who had moved away to doze, now woke up and came over to watch.

At about half past five the first of the Cilldargan men dropped out, soon followed by the other two. This left only Siobhan and Phelan. The atmosphere was now very tense. Everyone who'd stayed throughout the night now gathered around this last table.

In what turned out to be the last round, Siobhan put down fifty pounds. To bring things to a head, Phelan matched it with his fifty pounds, then raised her a thousand pounds. There was deathly silence in the room. Even though Siobhan had a better hand than her opponent did, she couldn't cover the thousand pounds. She looked defeated, then Brian threw down a cheque for a
thousand pounds.

"No cheques allowed," challenged Phelan.
"Referee!" called Brian. That was me. Brian assured me that the cheque was made out to cash, and was "as safe as the Bank of Ireland", so I declared that the cheque was OK.

Phelan knew that he'd lost. He retorted that "the priest was siding with Sodom and Gomorrah", and started to leave. Everyone was cheering and congratulating Siobhan. Then Phelan turned back and challenged Brian to a straight deal for a thousand pounds.

Ambrose, who had turned up in the last hour, tried to stop it, but Niamh insisted he go outside and direct traffic or something. It would have to be something, because at six in the morning there's not a lot of traffic in BallyK. Phelan insisted that I deal, which I did slowly.

The tension was electric, as slowly, one by one; ten cards were dealt out. After eight cards Siobhan had two pairs, and then after two more cards were dealt, she had three of a kind. So Siobhan had won. Phelan and Quigley glared at each other, and I thought for a moment that I might have to jump between them; then Phelan turned and left. We had, or at least Siobhan had
made two thousand and nine hundred pounds.

The furniture was delivered later on in the morning, after we'd all managed to stagger home for a wash, a shave and some breakfast. Poor Liam and Donal were exhausted after laying carpet since dawn. Niamh found them asleep in the furniture van.

At ten o'clock those of us who'd worked so hard to get Kathleen's house ready for her, were waiting in the church for her arrival. Fr. Mac turned up and made a sarcastic comment about the difficulty of getting some of the group to church for mass. It was probably a dig at Assumpta mostly. When she challenged him for a contribution, he gave a miserly five pounds. Not very
generous compared to many of the villagers. It now took the funds we'd raised to two thousand, nine hundred and five pounds.

When Kathleen arrived, Fr. Mac deliberately gave the impression that the parish church (that is him of course) was a large contributor to the money to fix her home. At least it meant we didn't have to tell her about the poker tournament that we all knew Kathleen wouldn't have approved of. It'd been one of the things we'd been worried about.

Kathleen was overcome with amazement when she saw her house. It looked so very nice. Niamh discretely closed the door to the kitchen where Donal and Liam had again fallen asleep. They were exhausted after having worked such long hours all week, and since dawn today.
"The Lord provides, Kathleen." Fr. Mac said, when Kathleen asked how it had all been possible. We were all very tired. I decided that I might try and get a few hours sleep before getting back to my pastoral duties.
 

12 Nov

The whole village is in turmoil at the moment. There are rumours that the two strangers, who say they're on a golfing holiday, but whose behaviour seems to contradict this, are really from the revenue. They've booked into Fitzgerald's, but don't appear to be playing much golf.

In fact Ambrose seems to be the only person who is behaving in his usual manner. It would make anyone, who didn't know these people as well as I do, think that they all have something to hide, or feel guilty about.
 

13 Nov

The town is still a buzz with the rumours about these revenue men or whatever they are. Even Kathleen is in a panic. She came to talk to me this afternoon, to ask what she should do. She said something about Assumpta having the right idea leaving and going to Dublin, and that she might go too.

I felt like I had been punched in the stomach when I heard that. Assumpta had said nothing to me yesterday when I'd helped her carry some beer from her van into her kitchen pantry. I knew she was having a difficult time with some of the plumbing and a leak in her ceiling, but she hadn't said anything about going. I thought we were good friends at the moment, and I felt very
hurt that she hadn't confided in me about it.

I tried to reassure Kathleen as best I could, then I went straight down to Fitzgerald's to find out what was going on from Assumpta. I found her in the bar, so asked to talk to her in private for a minute. We stepped into the kitchen.
"Is it true you're leaving?" I blurted out.
"This place drives you mad", she said. "Say something, and you might as well post it on the wall."
"Are you?" I asked again. I was getting a bit emotional, but couldn't help myself.
"Right now I've got something rather more urgent on my mind." She replied. She walked over to the pantry and flung open the door, and pointed to the beer we'd helped her carry in yesterday.
"It's duty free." she said. She explained how with burst pipes, and no hot water she'd been forced into it.
"It's dishonest." I pointed out. Probably not the most tactful thing to say under the circumstances.
"It's easy for you to talk." she said, "The church looks after you. You'll never be short of a crust, or a roof over your head." I deserved that I suppose.

"Why didn't you talk to me about it?" I asked her gently. It took all my will power not to take her into my arms and comfort her.
"Whether I should sell bootleg beer?"
"You know what I mean. Leaving BallyK." I said. That seemed to make her even more angry.
"What business is it of yours?" She asked me. "I'm not one of your flock. I don't have to answer to you."
I felt hurt and confused. "I care about you." I tried to explain. "I ..........."  I was nearly going to confess exactly how much I cared about her, and stopped myself just in time. "Perhaps you're right. It is none of my business, but you and I are friends, and I thought you might've considered my feelings....?"  What was I trying to do?

Assumpta replied to me calmly. "You ARE just a friend. You are no more important to me than any of the others. When I'm ready, you'll know what I'm going to do."  Then she walked out of the kitchen ahead of me.

I went back home feeling very depressed. I was determined to find out who those two men were. Ambrose obviously knew, but wouldn't tell. He was following my advise from yesterday, when he'd asked me should he tell something he had been told in confidence, even if it affected others. My advice had been that if it was confidential, he shouldn't tell. Now I wished I hadn't been quite so definite in my advice.

I made up my mind that whatever they'd done, I couldn't let my friends down. I went straight back to Fitzgerald's and told Assumpta that she could store her illegal beer in my back shed.

While Padraig, Brendan and I distracted the two strangers; Assumpta, Liam and Donal reloaded the beer into her van, and drove it to my shed. This was the same place where I'd hidden some accounts books of Brian's that I'd found in the church a few hours earlier today.

A little while later Brian came in to the pub, and asked me if by any chance I'd found some books in the church. So I took him with me to retrieve his books. It appears that these two men overheard our conversation, and decided to follow. Assumpta, overheard the men saying something like,  "Let's give the priest a hard time."  So she decided to follow too, bringing Niamh who was looking for Brian. Now in hindsight, it's all very funny, but at the time I thought that I'd really got myself into trouble. Just as I was retrieving Brian's accounts books from behind Assumpta's bootleg beer, the two strangers walked in.
"A right little Aladdin's cave in here, isn't it?" said one. I tried to explain that it was for personal use, and for a few parishioners.
"It's for the party." Brian added helpfully.
"What party?" asked the second stranger.
"My party," said Niamh, who'd just walked in. "It's a celebration.  I'm pregnant.   I'm having a baby."
"She pregnant." Brian repeated like a parrot.  "She's having a baby."
"And Assumpta here is providing the drink." I added. "I've been storing it for her, haven't I Assumpta?"
We invited them to join the party, but thankfully their phone rang at that moment, and they bade us a hurried farewell and left. We all looked at Niamh.
"Is it true?   I'm going to be a grandfather?   It's official?" Brian asked her. When she smiled and nodded, there were hugs and kisses all round. It was quickly fixed to have the party at Fitzgerald's tonight, and Brian would pick up the tab. So all the beer was again transported back to the pub.

All Ambrose and Niamh's friends were there. Only Siobhan and Brendan were missing. Siobhan had been invited to a function at Sean Dooley's house, as Sean Dooley was nominating Siobhan as a peace commissioner.

The atmosphere in the pub was not much like a party. No one felt like celebrating. It seemed that the threat of the revenue men still hung over everyone as we all drank up the 'evidence' as Assumpta put it. Conversation was subdued, with people talking in whispers. Niamh tried to get Ambrose to put everyone out of their misery. She said she'd a good mind to join Assumpta and go to Dublin. A discussion followed, about how Dublin had better promotion opportunities, cinemas, theatres and excitement compared to BallyK. This just illustrated how unhappy some people here have become lately.

Around nine o'clock, Siobhan and Brendan came in. "You can all relax." Siobhan called out. "The revenue men ain't revenue men. They're the fraud squad."
"And right this minute they're asking Sean Dooley some very searching questions about bribery, corruption and tax evasion. You name it, Sean Dooley's done it," added Brendan.
There was cheering, and the atmosphere in Fitzgerald's suddenly lifted. The music was turned up and the party became a proper celebration. Conversations were no longer in whispers, and were mostly about Siobhan and Brendan's announcement. People started to dance, and the noise became louder and more relaxed.

I was sitting with Assumpta, and we watched Niamh and Ambrose together. "Is that what you're looking for, Assumpta?" I asked her, nodding towards the dancing couple.
"No,  No" she replied. "I don't know what I'm looking for, but whatever it is, I'm not likely to find it here, am I?"
"You can find it anywhere." I replied, although I wasn't quite sure what it was she meant. I assumed she meant love.
"Do you believe everything you hear?" She asked.
"Why not? I replied jovially,  "I'm a man of faith, aren't I?"
 

23 Dec

I knew I'd won a turkey in the raffle, but I'd expected it to be frozen, not as alive as the one delivered by Eamonn this morning. I had to put up a small fence out of some netting to keep him in, while I went off to see who might kill and dress him for me for Christmas.

It seems that everyone is organised for Christmas. Assumpta is closing the pub, and has her college friends coming from Dublin. Padraig has invited Con O'Neill, (the boy who lives with a foster family in Allenstown, and nearly turned Brendan grey overnight a few months ago), to join him and Kevin. When I asked if he'd ever killed a turkey, he said that he bought a frozen turkey because it was less personal that way.

Brendan said that he could probably kill a turkey in theory, but only in self-defense. Not much help for me at present. So this afternoon, I took my largest knife out to the pen. I'm sure the turkey knew what I had in mind. It looked so downcast, I couldn't do it. I was feeling very despondent about my Christmas dinner by this time, so I decided just to buy myself a frozen
chicken, and worry about the turkey later.

When I was in Kathleen's shop, I ran into Assumpta, but she was busy, and hardly stopped. She practically ignored me and cut my conversation short. She didn't even give me a chance to wish her Happy Christmas. She was in a great hurry, organising for her friends I suppose. Late in the afternoon Fr. Mac turned up unexpectedly. He brought with him his nephew Timothy, who's a seminarian, in his last year. He put me on the spot, by asking me;  no telling me, to look after Timmy over Xmas. Fortunately Timmy seems very pleasant and obliging, and is very domesticated; but I would've liked to have been asked and given some notice. Timmy reassured me that he was quite happy to sleep on the couch, or on the floor in his sleeping bag. He said he could even sleep in a stable if I had one. That's fortunate, because there's not a lot of room in my place.
 

24 Dec

I received a Christmas card today from Mum, and also one from Steve. They're going to have Christmas in Scotland with one of Mum's sisters and her family. That's one disadvantage of being a priest; you can't usually get to spend Christmas with your family.

I asked Timmy about the turkey. Timmy informed me that it was definitely too late for this Christmas. So that put an end to my dilemma regarding the turkey. I was actually becoming quite used to the sound of him gobbling outside.

Timmy makes very nice French toast, and he's quite adept at cooking too, not like my rather plain affairs. He's offered to make up a nice stuffing for the chicken tomorrow.

After breakfast, I took Timmy with me to continue my round of visiting my wide spread flock. We found Eamonn very happily looking forward to having Xmas dinner with Mrs. Sheedy, who he said does a great stuffing.

When we met Kathleen, she commented on Timmy's lovely accent - Irish. That was probably a dig at me. Kathleen probably believes that all true priests should only speak with an Irish accent. It crossed my mind that I could always imitate an Irish accent when speaking to Kathleen, but she'd probably miss the point I was trying to make.

After we'd finished most of the visits, I sent Timmy over to Fitzgerald's alone. I felt I couldn't face Assumpta just then, after our curt encounter in Kathleen's yesterday. He had a drink and introduced himself to her. He reported back that she seemed quite pleasant, if a little touchy at times. That'is an understatement, I must say.

I can't understand Assumpta. Earlier this evening she rang and suddenly invited me to her dinner tomorrow. I explained about Timmy, but she said to bring him too. I asked her if she knew he was Fr. Mac's nephew. She did. Was she aware that he was a seminarian? She said that it didn't matter, even if he was a nun; she just thought we'd be good company. I thanked her, but
explained that we'd be OK and didn't want to gate crash on her party with her friends. She hung up then, so I'm not sure what that was all about.

Timmy and I had a very pleasant evening together. He was very good company, very different to his uncle, I must say. I suppose marriage is a bit like that, two people who love each other, and enjoy each other's company, being together in a relaxed atmosphere most evenings. I rather like the idea of that. Timmy being here has emphasised to me how lonely a priest's life can be.

When I think about it, the regulars in the pub are all single and looking for company. Niamh and Ambrose only come in for a specific purpose, but don't hang out like the rest of them.

Xmas Day. 25 Dec

Today ended up totally different to anything anyone could've imagined this morning. It started off with a pleasant breakfast, then the children's mass, mostly prepared by Brendan and Niamh with the school children. There was carol singing, then their nativity play.

Padraig came into the sacristy just before the service, concerned because Con and Kevin had disappeared. Kevin was supposed to be the narrator for the nativity play, and Padraig was worried. I thought it was probably just boys being boys, especially with Con being involved. I tried to reassure Padraig, and he agreed to stand in for Kevin as narrator if Kevin didn't turn up. I thought the boys had probably got sidetracked, and forgotten the time.

After mass neither boy could be found. Con had turned up briefly at the church without Kevin during the mass, but had disappeared again. Padraig was even more worried now, and I agreed it sounded very strange. It was decided that we'd have to arrange a search. While Ambrose went off to have a look around in his car, Siobhan offered to stay with Padraig in his house, in case either of the boys returned. Brendan, Timmy and I headed for the pub to see if we could use it as a meeting place from where would could organise a search. Assumpta was willing to help. As it turns out, her friends couldn't come, due to having the flu, so thankfully we weren't gatecrashing her party.

By late morning Ambrose had found Con, but he wouldn't say where Kevin was. He refused to speak to anyone but me, and only in the confessional. After I'd assured him that I wouldn't repeat anything I heard in the confessional, not to Padraig nor to Ambrose, he started to explain, but I was still very confused. What I did understand was that Kevin must be down a shaft, in the old disused copper mine. Con agreed I could at least tell the others that.

Ambrose and Padraig left for the mine straight away. Assumpta immediately rang the Mountain Rescue people, but was told that they were at least an hour away. Timmy said that he had done some pot-holing, but we'd need some ropes. So I sent him in my car, with Brendan as navigator, to Eamonn's to collect some ropes.

Dr. Ryan had been called, so I went with him in his car to the mine, to let Padraig and Ambrose know what we'd organised, and to see if they'd found Kevin. Siobhan offered to look after Con, and keep him out of Padraig's way.

When we got to the mine, Ambrose and Padraig had found Kevin at the bottom of a mineshaft. They could just make him out with their torches. He could be heard moaning, so was alive, but probably hurt. When Dr. Ryan saw him, he thought that by the way Kevin was lying, he might have a broken leg, and probably had concussion, which worried him a bit.

Timmy and Brendan were amazingly quick. Liam and Donal had also materialised. When Timmy asked if anyone has done any climbing or pot-holing, Donal indicated that he had done some pot-holing. So when Timmy had set up the ropes, we lowered him and Donal down to Kevin.

The ambulance arrived about the same time as Kevin was lifted out. I went with him and Padraig in the ambulance, leaving the rest to pack up and follow us back to BallyK.

When I eventually got home, I knew the chicken was ruined. I waited for Timmy to get back, then suggested we go down to Fitzgerald's and see if we could get something to eat there.

On the way down to the pub, Timmy confessed that he had killed my Jowett Javelin. He said that he mustn't have put the brake on sufficiently, and it had rolled over the cliff at the mine. It was a total write off. So now I'm back to square one where transport is concerned. Rather depressing news on Christmas day. I loved that car. It feels like I've lost a friend, and I haven't much prospect of being able to buy a new one.

When we reached Fitzgerald's, we realised that we weren't the only ones with the same idea. Most people who'd helped rescue Kevin had had their dinners ruined. Only Assumpta's turkey, which had been looked after by Brian, had survived.

In a comparatively short while, with Timmy and Niamh's help in the kitchen, Assumpta was able to produce enough food to feed the crowd that had arrived. The rest of us helped organise tables in the bar. Liam and Donal donated party crackers and hats that they'd picked up cheaply at a fire sale. So we were all able to sit down to a suitable Christmas Dinner after all. The
party continued into the evening, with the arrival of more villagers including Fr. Mac and even Kathleen.

I told Donal that he'd kept his climbing experience very quiet. He confessed that he hadn't known what pot-holing was, and thought it was something to do with filling holes in the road.
"But like anything else, once you get started its easy enough." he said nonchalently. I was lost for words, and couldn't think of a suitable reply to this. Life just wouldn't be the same in BallyK without people like Donal and Liam.

From where I was standing at the bar I looked around and saw all these Irish villagers celebrating Christmas. I thanked God for the gift of these friends. After nearly two years I really feel part of this place, and I can't think of any other place in the world I'd rather be.

I'm looking forward to another year here next year. Niamh and Ambrose are expecting their baby, and Brian has some plans concerning some joint investments with some Asians. I wonder if Assumpta will settle down, or whether she'll get itchy feet again.